Can you please connect your response with what you quoted? Honestly, I don't see the connection.
There is plenty of wiggle room, when you act on Purpose. Regardless of what you think either of what you think Traditional Christian Values are, or their limits. Acting on Conscience, in specific situation, for example, may have zero relationship with preconceived notion. When it's your energy being driven, are you focused more on the specifics of what you are doing, or on how others interpret what you are doing? Sometimes you need to make the choice between the two.
You don't seem to be describing traditional Christianity here at all. You seem in fact to be describing something mystical. However, I'm not entirely sure I understand you, so I am not sure how to respond.
True Religion is about Salvation, Positive Direction, For Each of us, It's a Matter of Conscience, and the Relationship through it with Our Maker. Try understanding Organized Religion as a Tool, like the Bible Even, like the Church or Churches. They are where we start out, at least most of us. They have Positive and Negative Influences, some even by design. A positive aspect is that they are always there, to be relied on, when the need arises. On the Negative, they have Limits, even Dogma, easily misconstrued. So what? We learn to distinguish the True Virtue from the Smoke Screen, the Myth. My only point to you would be to point you to searching your own being, conscience, Soul, in matters of Right and Wrong. What you come to determination on, You are Responsible for, the same holds for me, and Everyone Else. We each face the Consequences of our actions, words, and thoughts. There is no escape, there should not be, for how else do we come into realization? It all has meaning. There is nothing on your path that does not belong there by design. The lessons for Each of us, are unique, in some ways. So We Each are here tom work on our own lessons. Those that would attempt to use Religion to Enslave, miss the point, are actually at war with Something much Greater than what we can Comprehend. We are Each, a part of Something much Greater than Something that many try to package and wrap, and sell, as if we are the only one with a clue. It's not about Brand Name, but Transformation, a Transformation that Implies Growth, not finger pointing. We Each Matter. We Each at times are on point, and at times led astray. Where I personally find Agreement with Church or Churches, there is acceptance. Where there is conflict, Conscious Choice, is based on Conscience, not Stupidity. The Blind cannot lead the blind. When you don't know where you are headed, what you are doing, seek clarity of purpose before moving on.