beagle9
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. There's that word PRIVATE again, yet the lame stream media thinks that it ought to be a study in which everyone should be able to read the news of, and should know of.. lol. Yet when their freedoms boil over to restrict or take away our freedoms to live and raise our children the way we see fit, then intervention should take place to stop the intrusion.Cheating destroys more relationships than open relationships do. What the children know hasn't stopped men & women from lying and cheating throughout history.
I see, so the options are cheating vs. open relationships?
How about not doing either? That will save even more relationships.
It reminds me of the condemnation the Catholic church received for speaking against contraception. All the news was about spreading STD's thanks to the Catholic church. But then I did something inexplicable. I began to think for myself and realized the absurdity with that line of reasoning. If you are going to violate the Catholic church doctrine by having sex outside of marriage then why listen to them about not using contraception. That's what they call insane.
By all means, if you are going to do it anyway, then be open about it, much like you should be honest if you want to murder someone.
By all means, if you are going to do these things anyway, they you are on your own and many will suffer as a result even if you take precautions
I have never said anyone has to do anything.
I am simply engaging in a discussion of what some people do. And yes, the church has always condemned sex outside of marriage. But marriages between virgins are probably pretty rare.
Besides, why would I let your religious beliefs shape what I do?
I wouldn't dream of telling you what to do. If God gave you freedom who am I to take it away?
I believe God provided us a way to live that leads to life and true happiness and those who reject it can do as they please and reap their own reward.
All I'm doing it pointing this out to you
Exactly how does any of this effect the way you raise your children? They are not having sex on the streets. It is consenting adults in private.