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Divorce: What Women and Men Need to Know
By Abe Aamidor, The Indianapolis Star
November 10, 2005
"To honor and cherish, in sickness and in health, until death do us part." Or irreconcilable differences, whichever comes first.
There are about 2.2 million marriages every year in this country, according to the National Center for Health Statistics. But there are slightly more than 1 million divorces in the same time frame. One in five new unions will be kaput within the first five years, according to the government agency. And the result of those dissolutions? Anger and resentment.
Bruce Willis might be comfortable attending ex-wife Demi Moore's recent wedding to the much younger Ashton Kutcher, but that's not the norm. Most people go through emotional hell and can barely contain their anger at the other person, says George Brenner, a licensed marriage and family therapist at Community Health Network. Brenner, who's also director of addiction services at Community, has a list of emotional do's and don'ts for people going through divorce. Read them, along with other experts' lists of The Top 10 Mistakes Men (and Women) Make in a Divorce:
Top 10 Mistakes Men Make
Top 10 Mistakes Women Make
For full article:
http://www.indystar.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20051110/LIVING/511100332/1007
By Abe Aamidor, The Indianapolis Star
November 10, 2005
"To honor and cherish, in sickness and in health, until death do us part." Or irreconcilable differences, whichever comes first.
There are about 2.2 million marriages every year in this country, according to the National Center for Health Statistics. But there are slightly more than 1 million divorces in the same time frame. One in five new unions will be kaput within the first five years, according to the government agency. And the result of those dissolutions? Anger and resentment.
Bruce Willis might be comfortable attending ex-wife Demi Moore's recent wedding to the much younger Ashton Kutcher, but that's not the norm. Most people go through emotional hell and can barely contain their anger at the other person, says George Brenner, a licensed marriage and family therapist at Community Health Network. Brenner, who's also director of addiction services at Community, has a list of emotional do's and don'ts for people going through divorce. Read them, along with other experts' lists of The Top 10 Mistakes Men (and Women) Make in a Divorce:
Top 10 Mistakes Men Make
Top 10 Mistakes Women Make
For full article:
http://www.indystar.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20051110/LIVING/511100332/1007