GaryDog
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Don't you think it is strange that your wife is still manifesting troubled psyche for something that had happened 40-60 years ago (considering you self identify as a crotchety old man)
She clearly never got proper closure.
No I don't think it's strange that a horrific set of events that happened 20-25 years ago still affects her psyche. Her mind repressed these memories from her preteen years until she was 25 years old. Her own family refused to support her when the memories came to the surface. Even after a decade there are still new memories and details that she is just remembering.
Her assailant was never punished for his crimes. She and I deal with this without any emotional support from most of her family. It's us and her therapist against her own mind and memories.
Then you should harbor more ill-will toward her family members than to someone else convicted of a sex crime that in no way involved your wife.
Your animosity for your uncle just seems bizarre to me. Avoid the guy. No big deal. Don't engage. If he wants to, politely make your position clear.
We have an unhealthy animosity toward anyone locked up in this country. If you do time for most any offense, we vilify you. You're irredeemable. Hell, your uncle may have been abused himself. That's typically what sparks an abuser. Perhaps he may share that and in that way have something in COMMON with your wife? We need more empathy and less hatred. And not just for you. For your wife, as well.