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As I read the OP, my friend was sitting here. He's gay. He immediately said "she's teaching hate." I looked at him and said, "You know my beliefs, am I teaching hate?"
He answered "No." and changed his mind. Your own beliefs are your own and just because you think something is wrong or a sin, doesn't mean you hate those who are like that, or that you can't counsel them. Now, if she was one of those Baptists protesting at soldiers funerals, I'd say "flunk her", but she's not.
if you counsel them that they that can turn back to being straight than you are going against your professions code of conduct in this instance
Supposing that you just counsel them? Most counselors don't make judgments, they get you to talk and make your own judgments. Remember their tools? "How do you feel about that?" "How does that make you feel?" "What do you think you should do about that?" etc. no judgments, just talk.
many, especially those with strong beliefs on the topic, push an agenda. also there are, as reported in the link I posted, a number of patients who come in and say 'I am gay fix me' or 'I think I am gay what should i do about it?'