Sorry but no. In theory, you are right. The problem is, you cannot try and play by the rules with someone who doesn't want to play by the rules.Shout Biden supporters out of restaurants, harass them at home, block traffic, etc. Do everything to them that they did and see how they like it.
NO! No, NO, NO, NO!!!!! We do not stoop to their level. We get permits for our events. We act like civilized adults. We let THEM instigate the violence... THEN we take them apart like a frustrated butcher with a side of beef. Only in Self-Defense.
If you want to keep trying to be the better person, you can do so, while the other side is kicking you in the kneecaps, it just won't work.
The left would have to actually care and make strides to play by the same rules, but they won't. So, while you'll say we need to be nice and do it right, they are going to say they need to be in the face of Republicans and run them out of public places.
In order for your idea to work, each side would have to make strides toward a common goal, but that just isn't going to happen.