Cecilie1200
Diamond Member
I don’t believe a word she says. She’s nothing but a fraud like her husband.Apparently Michelle didn’t understand what happens when you have children. How could she be so ignorant?Seriously, what the hell is she talking about? "Concession" implies that she made a sacrifice as a favor to someone else. Who? Her husband? The world, in order to add so much to everyone's existence?
Giving birth to my children certainly limited my choices in life by bringing with them responsibilities and obligations I had to meet. I never thought of it as 'conceding" anything, though. Becoming a parent was a life choice I made, and like all choices in life, it closed some doors and opened others and defined which path I was taking through my future. Again, ALL life choices do that, not just having children.
I'm pretty sure she understood what happens, but she doesn't appear to have understood the correct perspective from which to view it. Which is why I'm interested in her comment. Michelle Obama herself is largely irrelevant now that her husband is no longer President, and I for one am perfectly happy for her to continue being largely irrelevant forever.
However, her comment highlights the disturbing mindset of the feminist movement and of our culture, which has been poisoned by the feminist movement. We have gone from "Women should be able to have other dreams besides being a wife and mother" to "Women MUST have other dreams besides being a wife and mother" to "Motherhood isn't a dream at all. It's a parasite which sucks all your dreams away, and OCCASIONALLY, with very bad grace, you might consent to tolerate it".
In this, I think I am more typical of women than Mrs. Obama is. When I was young and dreamed of what I wanted to do with my life, having a family to love was one of those dreams. In every adult life, there come occasions when you must choose to pursue Dream A, and to abandon Dream B in order to pursue Dream A, because you can only do one of them. I decided that I wanted to pursue the dream of a family more than I wanted to pursue the other things I could have. Pure and simple. And I believe that is the case for most women who are married and/or have children.
Which makes it very troubling that so many women, those who have families and those who don't, have been convinced to see marriage and motherhood not as a valid dream to pursue, but as a sacrifice of dreams.
If she's trying to tell me how the world is and should be, then I don't believe her either.
But when she's trying to tell me what her opinion and viewpoint is, I tend to believe that genuinely is her viewpoint, however misguided it might be. I especially believe she's being honest about her viewpoint when it comes in the form of a revealing choice of words.
Concession:
a thing that is granted, especially in response to demands; a thing conceded.
"the strikers returned to work having won some concessions"
synonyms:
compromise · adjustment · modification · allowance · exception · point conceded · point lost · forfeit · something surrendered · sop
- the action of conceding, granting, or yielding something.
"this strict rule was relaxed by concession"
synonyms:
admission · acknowledgment · acceptance · recognition ·
[more] - (a concession to)
a gesture, especially a token one, made in recognition of a demand or prevailing standard.
"her only concession to fashion was her ornate silver ring"