CaféAuLait
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CaféAuLait;8608078 said:Most mothers aren't happy with joint custody....it's way to disruptive for the child to move from one place to another - unless they live close enough to each other, which now they don't, so it's not unreasonable for her to not want joint custody. And he is selfish in wanting joint custody, because he obviously has the money to fly to NY on a whim, but she's in school and flying back and forth to California would disrupt her studies, not to mention put her in the poor house.
Well, okay, does it really matter? What about the texts, from your own link, that shows he's not really interested in being part of it when she was pregnant?
I guess Ill repeat myself again, as I said before, I would like to see all of the texts in context. Why is that such a problem? To me it just does not jive he is demanding children in one breath and in the next he is demanding an abortion.
Because she lives in New York, and he is the one that wants to see the child.
Again, why would he need to fly her and not just fly and pick up his child?
I didn't say he was breastfeeding, I said "if he was- would you be in favor of him being pulled away from his mother".....you didn't answer, but from your answers it seems like you would.
And, you're reading an old article, because he wasn't able to get him back, and no, he wasn't able to take him to Russia, either. And you seem perfectly happy that the baby would have been separated from his biological mother for that long? No loving father would do that to a child he truly loves.
Again, he had custody, and I was addressing your assertion that his seeing his child would be detrimental to the child. I said it only would be if the child were breastfeeding. Something you missed apparently. And he was granted the right to take his child to the Olympics.
Skier Bode Miller can bring son to Winter Olympics after striking short-term parenting agreement with former Marine lover in NY court* - NY Daily News
That's is such an inane suggestion. When you are in the throes of a sexual orgasm, you are not going to stop and consider whether or not you might be impregnating someone, or if the woman, getting pregnant, and start planning for the possibility that the other one may want to keep the child away from you! In a perfect world everyone would do everything right, but we don't live in a perfect world, shit happens.
Its not an inane question. This is why there are unwanted children. Use protection, condoms, pills, etc. BEFORE that orgasm happens. Not that hard. She knew he wanted children. She could take precautions and or he could.
Yeah, they are both responsible. But, they are not together and the courts have to decide what is in the best interest of the child.
And studies show that a child without a father in their lives are living at a detriment. I've already provided the links.
You seem to have a dislike for McKenna and keep making statements about what she said or didn't say.....the fact that she has "texts" from Miller claiming he doesn't want to be part of it should be sufficient for a judge to figure out that maybe his "joint custody" claim is just to keep from paying child support.
I have no like or dislike or McKenna or Miller. You have alleged he does not want to be a parent he just does not want to pay child support, or a child would be worse off if his father were to raise him because women are better for children.
Yes, and there is no law that says that a pregnant woman cannot move from where she lives, especially if the dude that got her pregnant has gotten himself married to someone else.
And, it's too late to be contemplating what they should have thought of before they conceived the child, that horse is already out of the barn....you need to deal with what is...and what is, is that the baby needs to be with his mother and that maybe all the "sperm chucker" deserves is visitation rights.
And there you have it, your views of this man are obviously that where you see him as nothing more than a sperm chucker. Instead of a person who seems to care for his child. Who cares if he married after dating this woman a few times who decided she no longer wanted a relationship? Does that matter? Nope, not at all.