Sunshine
Trust the pie.
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But wait! Thanksgiving means football, pizza goes with football, shouldn't a pizza place be open?
And the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade!
Yup, pizza with the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade too. What was wrong with this guy...
For 20 years of my life, I had the MIL from hell. She was the most narcissistic, controlling person I have EVER met, and 25 years working in psychiatry didn't change that. We lived near my husband's family, but not near mine. His folks would get together at the drop of a hat. Not so mine. Mine pretty much only gathered for the holidays. But the MIL HAD to claim all holidays as well. If you reminded her that we just were together the last 4 weekends, she would shoot back, 'but THIS is Thanksgiving/Christmas/you name it.' She didn't care that it caused considerable problems for her sons wives, and their families who they rarely saw.
I swore then, I would NEVER do that. And I don't. I do not claim ANY day of my grown children's lives as a God given right. And often, I simply don't find the way the holidays fall to be convenient. This year is the case in point. My daughter has to work black Friday(no one is given leave where she works), and Christmas is in the middle of the week. I have been invited to come stay the last week of 2013 with them, and that is infinitely better than driving 12 hours to celebrate one meal, or one day. And it is infinitely better that they actually WANT me to come for that long.
If I tried to do that 12 hours of driving for a meal of turkey, or if they tried it with a 3 year old we would all be tired and mad. None of us would have a good time. This stupid written in steel morality that surrounds the holidays is obscene. I simply don't appreciate some leftist loon trying to dictate what/when my holiday values should be. How/when I celebrate my holidays and with whom is simply none of their business.
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