emilynghiem
Constitutionalist / Universalist
Dear Sky:
I found the two posts you made, one citing an example of a religious abuse victim, and the other a list of signs of religious abuse.
A. I believe if you equally address "legal abuse" (and not just "religious abuse" you would see the real factor in all cases.
It isn't caused by just religion, and certainly not Christianity more than others. [Many people now are jumping about the Jihadists being blamed on Muslims or the Westboro Baptists being confused with Christians (when they are family members at a law firm and hate group not a church). Anyone can take ANY law and decide to judge or punish others based on their personal authority without respect for checks and balances to prevent abuse or injustice.]
The problem with both legal or religious abuse is when people abuse authority, law or relationships instead of respecting the equal interests and protection of others under the same laws.
Most of these abuses come from "unresolved conflicts"
When people don't think they can achieve agreement on what they want by reasoning or free will, many will just impose by greater force or authority than the other party.
Any "bullying" or abusive behavior is a tendency of human nature when we form groups and have leaders and followers and "pecking order."
Relationship abuse can happen in any family, because of parental authority over children; and happens in schools, business or government where there is hierarchy.
If you distinguish this factor as general of human nature and behavior to begin with,
then I believe we could talk about if Buddhists or Christians tend to abuse it more or not.
Do you agree this factor of abuse comes from human nature first?
NOTE: I believe that either legal or religious abuse can be prevented by teaching and enforcing civil laws and protections as in respect for Constitutional laws. So it isn't the fault of the religion being taught, but the practice of religious freedom to abuse others instead of protect people equally. If you read your list of signs, trying to disrupt relations with others is violating the "freedom of association" or trying to limit or manipulate one's beliefs is violating "freedom of speech, or freedom of religion". Those are Constitutional violations of civil rights, no matter which person is abusing what law to do this!
B. On that note,
If you look at the people who are ACTIVELY teaching and enforcing Constitutional laws to prevent abuses by persons or government, I think you will find more Christians involved in politics, military or policing than Buddhists. So the more "proactive" approach, which runs a greater risk of abuse than a passive stance, also serves when it comes to public defense.
I don't think it is fair of you to only see the abuses and take those out of context with the greater good that Christian traditions also offer by being more "proactive" "in relation with others" than Buddhist traditions that focus inward on just disciplining yourself without imposing.
I believe you are trying to point out that Christianity tends to be taught more proactively, where it is evangelized and many groups tend to require their members share it actively as part of their purpose or calling. While Buddhism tends to focus inward, and not so much on converting other people, but just working on your own discipline and process.
However, if you are going to say that more Christian or Bible-based people are involved in religious abuses or cult abuses, then also consider that more Christians are involved in Constitutional reforms and activism to prevent abuses of laws. More Christians than Buddhists would be involved in military defense or policing for the sake of law enforcement.
So in general if you are going to point out the "advantages" and "disadvantages" between the more "passive" approaches to teaching Buddhist principles, than the more "proactive" approaches to teaching Christian laws, then be prepared to point out the good with the bad.
I found the two posts you made, one citing an example of a religious abuse victim, and the other a list of signs of religious abuse.
A. I believe if you equally address "legal abuse" (and not just "religious abuse" you would see the real factor in all cases.
It isn't caused by just religion, and certainly not Christianity more than others. [Many people now are jumping about the Jihadists being blamed on Muslims or the Westboro Baptists being confused with Christians (when they are family members at a law firm and hate group not a church). Anyone can take ANY law and decide to judge or punish others based on their personal authority without respect for checks and balances to prevent abuse or injustice.]
The problem with both legal or religious abuse is when people abuse authority, law or relationships instead of respecting the equal interests and protection of others under the same laws.
Most of these abuses come from "unresolved conflicts"
When people don't think they can achieve agreement on what they want by reasoning or free will, many will just impose by greater force or authority than the other party.
Any "bullying" or abusive behavior is a tendency of human nature when we form groups and have leaders and followers and "pecking order."
Relationship abuse can happen in any family, because of parental authority over children; and happens in schools, business or government where there is hierarchy.
If you distinguish this factor as general of human nature and behavior to begin with,
then I believe we could talk about if Buddhists or Christians tend to abuse it more or not.
Do you agree this factor of abuse comes from human nature first?
NOTE: I believe that either legal or religious abuse can be prevented by teaching and enforcing civil laws and protections as in respect for Constitutional laws. So it isn't the fault of the religion being taught, but the practice of religious freedom to abuse others instead of protect people equally. If you read your list of signs, trying to disrupt relations with others is violating the "freedom of association" or trying to limit or manipulate one's beliefs is violating "freedom of speech, or freedom of religion". Those are Constitutional violations of civil rights, no matter which person is abusing what law to do this!
B. On that note,
If you look at the people who are ACTIVELY teaching and enforcing Constitutional laws to prevent abuses by persons or government, I think you will find more Christians involved in politics, military or policing than Buddhists. So the more "proactive" approach, which runs a greater risk of abuse than a passive stance, also serves when it comes to public defense.
I don't think it is fair of you to only see the abuses and take those out of context with the greater good that Christian traditions also offer by being more "proactive" "in relation with others" than Buddhist traditions that focus inward on just disciplining yourself without imposing.
I believe you are trying to point out that Christianity tends to be taught more proactively, where it is evangelized and many groups tend to require their members share it actively as part of their purpose or calling. While Buddhism tends to focus inward, and not so much on converting other people, but just working on your own discipline and process.
However, if you are going to say that more Christian or Bible-based people are involved in religious abuses or cult abuses, then also consider that more Christians are involved in Constitutional reforms and activism to prevent abuses of laws. More Christians than Buddhists would be involved in military defense or policing for the sake of law enforcement.
So in general if you are going to point out the "advantages" and "disadvantages" between the more "passive" approaches to teaching Buddhist principles, than the more "proactive" approaches to teaching Christian laws, then be prepared to point out the good with the bad.