Silhouette
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The study is about role models, not numbers. The vital complimentary gender is missing. It's the gender the child has and finds lacking in their formative environment. Single parent households are preferable to kids roaming the streets as orphans. It doesn't mean the single parent gets the benefits of marriage, does it? Well, at least not until "anything goes" marriage becomes a federally-forced right.. Monosexuals' children are as in danger of "immediate legal harm" as any other without the benefits of marriage...Don't start preaching to me about the sacred number of "two" as "traditional". If you do, I'll start preaching to you about how man/woman is traditional...and the most healthy for kids' self-esteem...
1. You continue to ignore the fact that the survey, according to the article, is not simply about missing role models, but missing 'positive' role models, which means that there could well be children raised by heterosexual couples that the survey included in their statistics of children harmed by lack of positive same gender role models. 2. You continue to misuse the word monosexual.
Whether two or two hundred, marriage is a union. There cannot be a marriage without multiple participants. It's akin to saying someone is doing something together with themselves. Your argument would be more compelling if you didn't keep obviously making things up in an attempt to strengthen it.
1. This article (quoted again below) FOUND THAT THE LACK IN CHILDREN'S LIVES WAS ABOUT ROLE MODELING. There...better? You can try to mince words to suit your spin all you like. In the end, lack of the child's gendered role model was what was detrimental to them.
2. I'm not misusing the word monosexual. Mono means "one". A person whose sexual preference is to be alone and not in a relationship. Their children number in the tens of millions as opposed to a few paltry thousand caught up in homosexual lifestyles. There are these tens of millions of kids currently without a champion for their "immediate legal harm" for their parent's sexual-lifestyle not gaining the benefits of marriage. Then there are the polysexuals.
"There cannot be a marriage without multiple participants"?
I could just as easily say there cannot be a marriage without a man/woman present. Especially when it comes to the wellbeing of kids:
Teens without parent role model are 67 per cent less likely to get a job Daily Mail Online
Young men with no male role models in their lives and women without a mother figure struggle to keep their lives on track, a hard-hitting report warns today. The Prince’s Trust youth index, the largest survey of its kind, found that....67 per cent more likely to be unemployed than their counterparts. They are also significantly more likely to stay unemployed for longer than their peers, the report suggests....It found that young men with no male role model are 50 per cent more likely to abuse drugs and young females in the corresponding position are significantly more likely to drink to excess..
Young men with no male role model to look up to were twice as likely to turn or consider turning to crime as a result of being unemployed...The report, which was based on interviews with 2,170 16 to 25-year-olds...These young men are also three times more likely to feel down or depressed all of the time and significantly more likely to admit that they cannot remember the last time they felt proud...They are also significantly less likely to feel happy and confident than those with male role models, according to the figures....The Prince’s Trust report, which was carried out by YouGov, suggests young people without male role models are more than twice as likely to lack a sense of belonging.
With no father to look to as he grew up, Arfan Naseer fell into a life of drugs and gangs...He even spent time in prison after becoming involved with the wrong crowd, impressed by their expensive cars and gangster lifestyle...He believes that if he had had a father or male role model to look up to, he would have seen the error of his ways at a much earlier age.