CorvusRexus
The Raven King
- Mar 6, 2014
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That's because you don't have any of your own children. If you did, your perspective would change in a nanosecond. If you did, you would instantly see how the entire social matrix around your child was a classroom, and not just the drab walls and chain link of the schoolyard. You think learning stops once they step out of there?
Promoting gay marriage is exactly the same thing as promoting homosexuality. Surely you cannot be that dense. Marriage is the top tier, the acme, the apex of adult human achievement as far as social bonding goes and sexuality. It is the mooring to which all the crazy ships in this weird sea try to get to and tie up. Or at least it used to be. It's rusted, needs welding and some new links in the chain to its anchor, but promoting gay marriage is the final blow to its withering integrity.
Then all those ships will bash against each other willy nilly until there's nothing left in the harbor but splintered wood. What vessel will the children sail on then? You're a pirate as well as a crow. I thought you'd like the analogy.
Rather clever analogy, I'll give you that. But I still disagree with your claim. Marriage for gays does not mean they have "Holy Matrimony". And I'll teach any children I might have in the future that.
Specifically addressing your analogy, why does gay marriage have to interfere with the mooring heterosexual marriage is? If heterosexual marriage is considered separate from homosexual marriage, the blow need not fall on it.
Your influence over your theoretical children unfortunately would be like pissing in the wind over the greater influence over ALL children in our culture that the potent message via marriage that "gay is OK" would have. You can't be everywhere.
And hence the reason the concept and social embracing of gay marriage is the real concern and not how each individual apart from others handles it. It's the overall influence it will have on the greater culture we live in. Not in your house. Broaden the scope of your lens a bit.
The thing is that legally and from an observer's point of view, gay marriage will be one and the same as hetero. Our legal system cannot discriminate once they ascend to that privelege. So they'll get the same access to orphaned kids to adopt, the same "what they do is normal" curriculum forced into school sex ed classes. And this presents problems given their spoken and public affiliation with and defensive regard for a man who preyed sexually on teen boys. [see my signature].
Yes, put a new lens on that scope you're looking through. Widen your range a bit beyond just how gay marriage affects you or your theoretical children. Then you'll see where we are coming from.
If I had a child who later claimed to be gay, I wouldn't force him/her to be straight. I would be fine with it.
What if you had a gay kid?