gallantwarrior
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Yeah, with kids, I think the dinner table either at home or out is something they need to work on. I'm for letting the little curtain climbers be themselves but it builds character to have rules and for them to learn common curtesy.
My daughter's first restaurant meal was on the way home from the hospital. Her fifth birthday was celebrated in a very nice, upscale restaurant in Munich. The staff there cringed (Germans don't usually take their kids out to places like that until their early twenties), and we did get a very early evening reservation. The daughter was a perfect lady, even knew the proper utensils to use for each course. Point is, children can and should be taught proper table manners and public deportment. Unfortunately, too many people seem to view their treasured sprosslings as something more akin to wild chimpanzees.
They want to learn and have boundaries. I wasn't totally strict with my daughter, she got to color outside the lines and try new things but mealtimes are a place to also destress from the day. I like the connection there.
There are times and places where "coloring outside the lines" is appropriate. Public dining establishments are places where one learns to conduct oneself as a lady, or gentleman. There's a time and a place for both concepts.