evenflow1969
Gold Member
There have been abuses on both sides of the fence here. Are there guys who do not pay for their children ? the answer is yes! Are there women who have abused the system and made men their slaves with it? The answer is yes! I took a credit app on a lady a few years ago that had $22,000/month in income and no jobs! How did she do iT?Like it or not, with the advent of The Pill, the WOMAN was able to decide, unilaterally, whether or not to have a child. With that power comes responsibility.
I think that's the point of the OP.
Perhaps. But the Pill is no guarantee. My oldest son is a "Pill baby".
If we are going to talk about taking responsibility, the men just need to "wrap that rascal" unless they know for sure she is on the Pill. And even then, safe sex is always the best way.
'unilaterally'?
Nothing prevents a man from having a vasectomy or using a condom.
I am really tired of men complaining about having to be responsible for the children that they sire.
My sister's former husband has been married 4 times now. After they were married she found out about the previous 3- including the 2 kids he never paid child support for.
Guess who cheated and is now trying to weasel out of child support payment?
I have no tolerance for boys who don't want to pay for their kids.