aris2chat
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This is why women are so screwed in the head.Ya still had to kill them first.
It is her body, her tissue, her nourishment, her blood, her life, her mind, her choice.
I she wants to have a breast removed, it is her tissue that is being killed. If she wants her womb removed, that is her decision. If she wants part of her womb removed, it her choice.
Till it is living on it's own outside her body, it is still part of her and she can do what she wants.
If it cannot breath and function apart from her, it is not an independent life and what happens is her decision.
You have no part in her decision or what she does. When it is your body, you can decide. Her body, you don't get a vote. As long as it is inside her, it is her body. When it is outside her body, she can walk away. No one can make her choices for her.
Even the bible does not give a value for a life till it is at least a month old.
If she is does not believe in god or have any faith, you cannot impose yours on her against her will.
Either way you have no say at all
She has the right to control her own body. If she chooses not to share her body, that is her right.
Morally and legally, you get no part in her life or what she thinks is best for her.
You can only decide for your body.
I'd imagine they'd have to come up with all kinds of reasons why it's okay just to try and smother the guilt they feel.
Why should she feel guilt if it is the right choice for her to make. That is her legal right to decide. It is her body.
So maybe your mother should have aborted you since you seem to be just fine with it.
Why do I have a feeling you have a good reason to feel guilty?
If she had, I would never know or being around to care.
She could have made that choice. She made all the other choice in her life, and I had no say.
She was not happy with my choices to have children, but she did not have a right to anything but her opinion after I told her. She lived her life, I lived mine. I was eventually told I should not attempt any more. Since I enjoyed sex, I opted to make sure I never could get pregnant again.
It was decided that was made early, if it came to a choice, my life was more valuable. If I wanted children I could not have them later on I could have adopted.
My life and my marriage was more important than children. I had children, nearly died twice in the process before I decide not to try again.
I made choices that were right for me. I did not have to consult with half the community or family around the world. It was my body and my life.
I don't care that my mother had no part in a relationship with my children. She did not have to.
I had no say when my daughter decided to have children. It was her life. My other daughter has chosen a career as a nurse instead of raising a family. That is her decision. She is continuing her studies to become a pediatric nurse practitioner, but she has chosen not to have children, or not to have them yet. It is her body and her life.
I'm not going to care for them less with or without children. If they want to be single, married or just living with someone. I just want them to do what is right for them.
I made my choices, now it is their life to live.
I chose to have a life instead of trying to have more children.
You, or anyone else out there did not have a voice in my choices. Don't care if you have an opinion one way or the other, not your life.
I won't have a say when my grandchildren have to make life choices. Won't change my opinion of them. I can't live their lives for them.
You can't force another person to carry a fetus or to be a parent. You have to live your own life and make your own choices.
What others choose in none of your business.
If I don't choose to risk my life to have another child, that is none of your business.
Pregnancy is not always a joy and can wreck havoc on the body. Some don't want to put their life on hold at that particular time. Maybe their job would no allow them to function while pregnant.
What ever the reason, the woman has to be the one to decide about her life.
You don't get to risk my, or anyone's life to carry a fetus I/they might never know because you don't think anyone should have an abortion. Instead an abortion I opted for a hysterectomy.
If you had tried to decide for me, you probably would not be voicing an opinion on any forum right now.
You can't know the circumstances of every women or what is going on in her mind. You can't know her history or risks. You can known her family situation or financials. You don't know their hopes and dreams. You can make decision on how she lives her life.
You have a say if she chooses to have an abortion or not. You don't even have a right to know if she is pregnant.
You only have rights in the choices about your body and your life.