My family is my family. They don’t have to share the same skin tone, hair color, eye color, nose shape.
Bullshit. LEt one of them join the Proud Boys and you'd never speak to them again.
Joining the Proud Boys (I had to look it up) is a behavior, not a physical attribute.
But tell me more about how I would treat my family.....
It is a choosing of culture and a celebration of heritage.
One that you do not agree with and would not fit well with you.