martybegan
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If a man wants to choose whether or not to carry a child.....then let him carry the child.
Again, talking biology not legality.
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If a man wants to choose whether or not to carry a child.....then let him carry the child.
abortions. No rights even if the male is married to the female and wants a baby. A women should make it known to men that she is not ready or doesn't' want kids before marriage and a women has a choice to change her mind anytime she wants.
Penny, do you know who Donatien Alphonse François was? He was one of the first abortion activists of the Western world, who lived from 1740-1814. He believed—and wrote thousands of words about—the inherent, natural right of men to take pleasure from inflicting sexual violence on women. Can you possibly understand, Penny, how his ancient words have trickled down from his era of French History, over the many decades since he wrote them, into American culture of the 1950's, and eventually, into your mind? Old Donatien Alphonse François also believed in abortion as a means of population control, and that mothers should have a right to kill even children who had already been born. This man, Penny, is the man whose savage ideas have deceived you into believing that the killing of the unborn is normal and moral. Further, he is the MAN who made you think women have the right do whatever they want while pregnant, to their developing child. No WOMAN came up with the idea. No, this man gave you permission to do it, he told you what you could and couldn't do with your own body, and apparently, you have no problem with that.
And Penny, this man I've spoken about with you above? He is also known by another name. A name which made him very famous and even more infamous to history. His other name, a title really, was The Marquis de Sade. You should look up the definitions of Sadism; Sadist; Sadistic. Do any of those definitions describe you?
So I take it you do not want to accept responsibility for not getting someone pg nor spreading STD's. Once that female is pg, even if its your wife, you have no say so if she gets an abortion or not.
abortions. No rights even if the male is married to the female and wants a baby. A women should make it known to men that she is not ready or doesn't' want kids before marriage and a women has a choice to change her mind anytime she wants.
Penny, do you know who Donatien Alphonse François was? He was one of the first abortion activists of the Western world, who lived from 1740-1814. He believed—and wrote thousands of words about—the inherent, natural right of men to take pleasure from inflicting sexual violence on women. Can you possibly understand, Penny, how his ancient words have trickled down from his era of French History, over the many decades since he wrote them, into American culture of the 1950's, and eventually, into your mind? Old Donatien Alphonse François also believed in abortion as a means of population control, and that mothers should have a right to kill even children who had already been born. This man, Penny, is the man whose savage ideas have deceived you into believing that the killing of the unborn is normal and moral. Further, he is the MAN who made you think women have the right do whatever they want while pregnant, to their developing child. No WOMAN came up with the idea. No, this man gave you permission to do it, he told you what you could and couldn't do with your own body, and apparently, you have no problem with that.
And Penny, this man I've spoken about with you above? He is also known by another name. A name which made him very famous and even more infamous to history. His other name, a title really, was The Marquis de Sade. You should look up the definitions of Sadism; Sadist; Sadistic. Do any of those definitions describe you?
That entire line of gibberish is predicated on a fallacy: that a woman needs *anyone* to tell her how to use her own body.
She doesn't. She doesn't need anyone to tell her its moral. She doesn't need anyone to come up with justifications for her actions. She can control the use of her own body, by her own will, for her own reasons. And be left alone by the State to make her own choices.
That's the beating heart of the right to privacy....the right to be left alone. And no, they didn't cite the Marquis de Sade when they recognized this fundamental right.
Do you know what the fallacy of origins is? Did you know its also known as the 'genetic fallacy'? You should look it up. Do you realize you're that fallacy's poster child?
abortions. No rights even if the male is married to the female and wants a baby. A women should make it known to men that she is not ready or doesn't' want kids before marriage and a women has a choice to change her mind anytime she wants.
Penny, do you know who Donatien Alphonse François was? He was one of the first abortion activists of the Western world, who lived from 1740-1814. He believed—and wrote thousands of words about—the inherent, natural right of men to take pleasure from inflicting sexual violence on women. Can you possibly understand, Penny, how his ancient words have trickled down from his era of French History, over the many decades since he wrote them, into American culture of the 1950's, and eventually, into your mind? Old Donatien Alphonse François also believed in abortion as a means of population control, and that mothers should have a right to kill even children who had already been born. This man, Penny, is the man whose savage ideas have deceived you into believing that the killing of the unborn is normal and moral. Further, he is the MAN who made you think women have the right do whatever they want while pregnant, to their developing child. No WOMAN came up with the idea. No, this man gave you permission to do it, he told you what you could and couldn't do with your own body, and apparently, you have no problem with that.
And Penny, this man I've spoken about with you above? He is also known by another name. A name which made him very famous and even more infamous to history. His other name, a title really, was The Marquis de Sade. You should look up the definitions of Sadism; Sadist; Sadistic. Do any of those definitions describe you?
So I take it you do not want to accept responsibility for not getting someone pg nor spreading STD's. Once that female is pg, even if its your wife, you have no say so if she gets an abortion or not.
Actually, Penny we are trying for a little one. I have three nieces: ages 8, 16 and recently, 18. The middle one just got her driver's license (oh shit!), works two jobs, and has bought her own car, and pays for her own car insurance, which just increased dramatically—after a bit of a fender bender at a traffic light. As for STDs, the Army has, over 27 years, shown me images more terrifying of the consequences of, than slides of Landmine Warfare Training, from WW1.
I do try, Penny. However, and above all else, I respect your opinion—and your right to have and keep said opinion, even if we must agree to disagree.
Limits are essential. Though how far should those limits go?
Fascism to Anarchy.... where is the line? People have different views on that.
True. To paraphrase a friend of mine... “My Moral life doesn’t decrease your ability to live an immoral life, but your immoral life does infringe in my ability to live a Moral life.”
That’s the problem.
Why is someone else being immoral, causing you not to be moral?
As the laws of 50 of 50 States demonstrate eleganlty....the confusion is yours. As legality sits on one side of this issue exclusively. Not yours.
Every state recognizes that a man and woman have equal obligation for their own children.
As it should be.
More appeal to authority, and when and if an ERA amendment passes, if poorly written those laws would become moot.
Says the soul that just appealed to the authority of 'legality'. Defined by you of course.
I'll stick with legality as defined by 50 of 50 States. As the legislatures are embued by the the people to make law. And you're nobody.
Is this really it? Just your standard sctick of demanding that we ignore the law and every legal principle and accept your personal opinion as the law?
You're quite the one trick pony, Marty.
it's not a question of obligation, its a question of only one having a legal "out" if they don't want a child after sex resulting in a pregnancy.
Of course its a question of obligation. If the child exists, the obligation exists for both parents. If the child doesn't exist, no obligation exists for either parents.
The obligation is equal. And at no point can the mother saddle the father with an obligation that she doesn't also bear.
Parents are responsible for their children. You're insisting that men should never have to be.
Nope.
You run to the warm comfort of established law because you an unable to see the actual question and debate.
In comparison to what? You demanding that YOU define 'legality'?
Sorry, but the moment you cited 'legality', you lost. As the law is firmly on one side of this issue. With every State has rejected your nonsense without exception.
Is your standard plea that we accept your imagination as the law really all you have?
If so, that was easy.
And as usual you argue the how and not the why.
No special protections. Merely the *same* protections: control over the use of their own bodies.
You're demanding unequal obligation, where a woman is responsible for every child she bears but a father is not responsible for any child he sires.
Nope. We will continue with equal rights to control of one's own body and equal obligation for one's children.
No, I am not, you are the one demanding unequal protections.
Of course you're demanding legal inequality. You're demanding that a woman be responsible for every child she bears but a man never has to take responsibility for any child he fathers.
Nope. Your pseudo-legal gibberish is rejected universally by every state in the Union. And for good reason. As the obligation isn't to the mother....its to the child.
If the child exist, the obligation exists. Your entire nonsense demand is debunked by the simple fact that children are responsible for their own children.
Now you are not making any sense, and you have lost the ability to use the quote function properly.
Here's the post again, for the cheap seats.
Of course you're demanding legal inequality. You're demanding that a woman be responsible for every child she bears but a man never has to take responsibility for any child he fathers.
Nope. Your pseudo-legal gibberish is rejected universally by every state in the Union. And for good reason. As the obligation isn't to the mother....its to the child.
If the child exist, the obligation exists. Your entire nonsense demand is debunked by the simple fact that parents are responsible for their own children.
Again you go past the part we are actually arguing about.
Right now women can have responsibility free sex, but men can't. How does that create equality?
Why is someone else being immoral, causing you not to be moral?
Having to deal with women in the workplace. Having to pay taxes to support wastes of flesh and oxygen who refuse to support themselves. Having to find a bank that still has male tellers to do my banking. Dealing with people who don't respect or embrace the language and culture of this country.
All of these things and much more put me in a position of having to either violate my morals/values or go completely out of my way to conduct even the most basic business and life activities..
You only do your banking with male tellers?? LMAO!! You DO realize that females probably handle your money anyway, right? And that more males than females commit bank fraud and embezzle.
You only do your banking with male tellers?? LMAO!! You DO realize that females probably handle your money anyway, right? And that more males than females commit bank fraud and embezzle.
I can’t control what happens behind the scenes. If the bank wishes to use an immoral workforce behind the sceens there’s nothing I can do about that. The bank accounts I have are for bill payment only. We keep most of our funds in cash, so there’s not much there to steal or mess with.
You only do your banking with male tellers?? LMAO!! You DO realize that females probably handle your money anyway, right? And that more males than females commit bank fraud and embezzle.
I can’t control what happens behind the scenes. If the bank wishes to use an immoral workforce behind the sceens there’s nothing I can do about that. The bank accounts I have are for bill payment only. We keep most of our funds in cash, so there’s not much there to steal or mess with.
How are women 'immoral' anymore than men?
You only do your banking with male tellers?? LMAO!! You DO realize that females probably handle your money anyway, right? And that more males than females commit bank fraud and embezzle.
I can’t control what happens behind the scenes. If the bank wishes to use an immoral workforce behind the sceens there’s nothing I can do about that. The bank accounts I have are for bill payment only. We keep most of our funds in cash, so there’s not much there to steal or mess with.
How are women 'immoral' anymore than men?
Right? Pure delusion.
How are women 'immoral' anymore than men?
How are women 'immoral' anymore than men?
The immorality occurs when they engage in activities and work which is not appropriate for women.
How is being a teller 'inappropriate'? Or immoral in anyway?
How is being a teller 'inappropriate'? Or immoral in anyway?
Man’s work. Always has been. Simple as that.
There haven't always been bank tellers. How then could it 'always be' man's work?
Your claims make no sense.