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I didn't make any claims about precedent. Again, I simply pointed out that your statement saying the concept of same sex marriage has only begun in the last few decades is false. If you said that the concept of same sex marriage as an equal legal contract to opposite sex marriage is recent, that would probably be accurate. On the other hand, there were apparently some tribes in Africa in pre-colonial times that allowed women to marry and treated it similarly to opposite-sex marriages.
History of Same Sex Marriage
For the purposes of this thread, how about 'same sex marriage is a recent idea in the US'?
The concept as a broad mainstream reality is recent. Sorry but 1-2 maybe sort of probable cases does not make a case for precedent.
In Africa, those cases probably involved widows or women from families with no men, and it had to do with property, not sex.
There is a similar concept found in the Balkans, (Albania I think), but again that has all to do with keeping family property in the family.
If all you are going to do is nit-pick, when my statement is 98% accurate, then go play somewhere else.
Feel free to stop replying. I never claimed that SSM is or has been common, nor that any precedents were set, nor that it was a mainstream legal construct. I simply pointed out that a statement you made, the way you stated it, was false. Since then, you've repeatedly tried to make that into something it is not.
I was just looking to fix a slight inaccuracy in a post you made. Why you want to assume that I'm making statements about same sex marriage that I am not, I'm not sure. Hell, you could have just said the current concept of SSM began in the last few decades and that would have been fine.
Maybe you really hate accepting any sort of correction to your posts, however minor.![]()
And I clarified, but you keep harping on the same point over and over, so I have to assume you are just bringing up chickenshit to be annoying.
I'm sure someone had an idea for a computer back in antiquity, but we don't say computers go back to then. (probably involving boulders and slides)
Someone having an idea, and an idea being accepted or applied are two different things.
I agree. Never claimed otherwise.
Your clarification was fine with me, except that you seemed to both dismiss the evidence of previous same sex unions as not counting, or being just about sex, and that you seemed to indicate that I was arguing more than just that the concept of same sex marriage is older than a few decades. I've been "harping" because I don't want to seem to accept that my argument was something other than what it was.
I'm fine with accepting your clarification and dropping this little side discussion.![]()
I understand now. As a clarification, the "current" concept of SSM is a modern construct. My point is that the comparison to inter-racial marriage and the past bans on that in this country isn't really valid, because the idea of inter-racial marriage as sanctioned marriages has been with us throughout history, in the guise of inter-tribal, inter-clan, and even inter-governmental marriages. If there is any hard evidence of even limited sanctioned same sex marriages (and not the whole concubine/harem systems seen in the past) I have yet to see it.
I brought up the African tribal example, although you are right that it appears to have been about widows not wanting to find a new husband from what I've read. Nero was also supposed to have married 2 different men when he was emperor, including once having a ceremony in which a castrated boy was dressed as a woman traditionally would have been; when the emperor gets married, it's kind of automatically sanctioned.
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I believe that the evidence of those examples is somewhat speculative. I don't know that there is any definitive evidence of sanctioned same sex marriages, particularly not similar to how marriage is defined in the modern US.
There are certainly differences between same sex marriage and interracial marriages. There are some similarities as well, so I don't know if dismissing the comparison entirely is a good idea, but I'd agree that trying to make it a direct, point-by-point comparison will fail.