Truly, I haven't delved in to all that happened and what is being said and by whom, other than skimming what has been said in maybe 25 posts n this thread, and I didn't even know the Druggers were Christian or even portrayed themselves as a 'good Christian Family' or anything like that, (though I will admit, somewhere in the back of my head... I thought it was just another Mormon or Latter Day Saints reality series with 19 kids and Counting among all the wives... lol) So know, I have never watched the show, though have channel flipped over it so I had seen the show's title many times...
My thoughts have progressed to...
when Josh was 14.... he was really messed up and did some horrible things to his sisters... and probably scarred them for the rest their lives, even without the girls knowing it on the surface....it'll be there, deep in the back of their heads, especially the smallest...if this is true about his alleged actions with her.
All of the children involved, should have been seen and treated, by professional counselors that deal in this kind of behavior, including Josh....perhaps hindsight is 20/20 though? Matt and I were never able to have children together so I can only imagine what it would be like being a mother, but I can not imagine that I would turn over my son to the police, on this kind of thing...actually, I can't even imagine that it would ever happen with Matt and me as parents, but we would have never had 19 kids that we could not keep track of, even if I could have had children with him.
What I can imagine is that I would have immediately been concerned for my little girls, I would have wanted them all examined physically... and would have found the best professional counseling I could for THEM! And I also would have sought professional Counseling for Josh, along with both Matt and I sitting down with him every day, one on one time, talking to him about what he did and why it was wrong and very hurtful towards his sisters.
I'd be concerned as a parent, on where we went 'wrong' with our son, and what we did to cause him to be this disturbed and unable to control himself, (most hormone bursting young male teen would masturbate, so I've been told) and how he could even think it was "ok" to do what he did....did it come from something we did, or didn't do as parents?
At the same time, maybe the Druggers felt they were doing all they could do? Can we not give them the benefit of the doubt on this...? It's not like they sat back and did nothing....they did reprimand Josh and did seek help for him, and yes I don't think it would have been easy for them to go to their Church Pastors and tell them about it but they did do this...maybe not the help I would have chosen, but that would be MY choice, whatever it may be, as the Drugger's choice....no?
From what I have read, this kind of stuff happens a lot more than we all may think, in this Nation of ours...and we don't hear about the most of it, except maybe occasionally in a local story, if that...
Josh was a juvenile when this happened, and this information should have never been released in my humble opinion...even with "a freedom of information request" for this that was redacted with black out info....which is how the info got out, as a juvenile when it happened, those accusations or wrong doings should never be released.
I don't know anything about Josh now as a grown up... other than what has been said in the thread or a link or two from the thread, but I've see no signs of him being the 14 year old molester that he once was.... time will tell, I suppose....and I pray the girls are doing okay...deep inside.
My thoughts have progressed to...
when Josh was 14.... he was really messed up and did some horrible things to his sisters... and probably scarred them for the rest their lives, even without the girls knowing it on the surface....it'll be there, deep in the back of their heads, especially the smallest...if this is true about his alleged actions with her.
All of the children involved, should have been seen and treated, by professional counselors that deal in this kind of behavior, including Josh....perhaps hindsight is 20/20 though? Matt and I were never able to have children together so I can only imagine what it would be like being a mother, but I can not imagine that I would turn over my son to the police, on this kind of thing...actually, I can't even imagine that it would ever happen with Matt and me as parents, but we would have never had 19 kids that we could not keep track of, even if I could have had children with him.
What I can imagine is that I would have immediately been concerned for my little girls, I would have wanted them all examined physically... and would have found the best professional counseling I could for THEM! And I also would have sought professional Counseling for Josh, along with both Matt and I sitting down with him every day, one on one time, talking to him about what he did and why it was wrong and very hurtful towards his sisters.
I'd be concerned as a parent, on where we went 'wrong' with our son, and what we did to cause him to be this disturbed and unable to control himself, (most hormone bursting young male teen would masturbate, so I've been told) and how he could even think it was "ok" to do what he did....did it come from something we did, or didn't do as parents?
At the same time, maybe the Druggers felt they were doing all they could do? Can we not give them the benefit of the doubt on this...? It's not like they sat back and did nothing....they did reprimand Josh and did seek help for him, and yes I don't think it would have been easy for them to go to their Church Pastors and tell them about it but they did do this...maybe not the help I would have chosen, but that would be MY choice, whatever it may be, as the Drugger's choice....no?
From what I have read, this kind of stuff happens a lot more than we all may think, in this Nation of ours...and we don't hear about the most of it, except maybe occasionally in a local story, if that...
Josh was a juvenile when this happened, and this information should have never been released in my humble opinion...even with "a freedom of information request" for this that was redacted with black out info....which is how the info got out, as a juvenile when it happened, those accusations or wrong doings should never be released.
I don't know anything about Josh now as a grown up... other than what has been said in the thread or a link or two from the thread, but I've see no signs of him being the 14 year old molester that he once was.... time will tell, I suppose....and I pray the girls are doing okay...deep inside.