MarathonMike
Diamond Member
Good for you, there are far too few Americans who have that mindset.My wife and I are followers of Dave Ramsey, Debt reduction guru. His rule is that you should have 6 months of living as an emergency fund.
Our fund was recently depleted, by my wife having some cosmetic surgery, which was incredibly painful, for me, but still, I'm confident that we will be fine, for the duration of this panic. She is working, and we have rent coming in from an investment property, and I think that I will still be getting paid, AND even if that all goes to hell somehow, we have vast amounts of untouched credit, that we could use to live on, AND,
well, you get the idea.
Today, my daughter and I started on cleaning out the basement. I have been wanting to do that, but been too busy. She is approaching teen years, and I discussed putting a snack and soda bar in the utility room, for her and her friends.
She was excited about the idea.
I love Dave Ramsey. Doesn't matter if you are just barely getting by on a low paying job. Just mow some lawns or deliver pizza, and you too can be a millionaire. I often wonder what drugs he is on..
It is all about the long term. ONe of my few regrets is that I did not hear of him sooner.
My wife is fairly confident that we will be millionaires by the time we retire. I consider her assumptions optimistic. But as time goes on the complex of what ifs required to go balls up to destroy us, become increasingly unlikely.
Sure, No problem. Just increase your income. It's easy cause Ramsey said it was. Why didn't any one else think of that?
Not always his answer. More about once you get to a certain level, not to increase your standard of living to match.
I recall my first promotion. My co-worker of the time told me that, "maybe now you can get a real car".
I wanted to punch him in the face. The closest thing I had ever had to a "break" and you want me to immediately increase my expenses, instead of trying to get ahead?
I still drive used. I had a car payment ONCE, when I was making too much money and got lazy and impatient. It was a mistake.
About half of my friends make more money than me. But only one of them, is in better financial shape. Maybe.