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That you two are given to remarking upon the person who made the comments in the OP rather than directly defending the legitimacy of K. Conway's statements.
Conway says that the Trump characteristic that stood out to her was his humility. Well, we must take her word that that is what stood out to her. The thing is "God only knows how and why."
- At a press conference in Corpus Christi, Trump made the matter about himself and his image:
- "Thank you everybody. What a crowd! What a turnout!”
- "“We want to be looked at in five years, 10 years from now, as ‘This is the way to do it’.”
- Commenting on Brock Long, Trump said Long "has really become very famous on television the last couple of days.” We all know what Trump's view of fame is: the more famous the better, so long as it's not stealing the spotlight from him.
In the immediacy of calamity, adept leaders strike tones of sympathy and inspiration by articulating things that amount to saying "I feel for you, and I understand what you're going through." They share inspirational remarks on which sufferers can focus as they battle through their own pain and loss. Why? Because nobody suffering wants to hear "how great thou art." To wit:
- Ronald Reagan’s poignant remarks upon the explosion of the space shuttle Challenger: “We will never forget them, nor the last time we saw them, this morning, as they prepared for their journey and waved goodbye and ‘slipped the surly bonds of earth’ to ‘touch the face of God.’”
Who's the focus of that commendation? It wasn't Reagan or his people in the government.
- Barack Obama hugging a woman whose business was destroyed by Hurricane Sandy.
The man personally comforted a suffering citizen with a hug. He didn't hug her to comfort himself.
- George W. Bush’s appearance at Ground Zero on September 14, 2001. Bush began his remarks saying, “I want you all to know that America today, America today is on bended knee, in prayer for the people whose lives were lost here, for the workers who work here, for the families who mourn." Bush is likely best remembered for his ad-libbed remark, “I can hear you! The rest of the world hears you! And the people who knocked these buildings down will hear all of us soon!”
Notice that?- "Ad-libbed." The sentiment wa something indicative of him thinking about how the people who died will be remembered, not how he'll be remembered.
- Expressions of condolence for the victims and their families.
Even as I've written the above, I must accord Trump his due on the inspirational side of things. That theme has pervaded made of is "Harvey" remarks, and he's not been sparing with them. I give him props for that.
The thing is that it takes no humility to be inspiring. It's not hard to be "rah-rah siss boom bah." It takes humility to express sympathy and empathy. Trump's parents and a sibling have passed. Surely, having lived through those losses, he could muster a bit of empathy for the people who've died or lost loved ones or "everything they have in the world." If he has any for them, he didn't express it during his visit to Texas.
Trump managed to speak sympathetically when recalling Kate Steinle, a woman shot and killed in San Francisco in 2015 by an unauthorized immigrant, and other people killed or injured by unauthorized immigrants. During the campaign, his discussion of these people were often among the most emotional moments of his rallies. Was that sincere sympathy or was that merely a vehicle for deriding immigrants? Even if it wasn't sincere, the point is that when it suits him, Trump is capable of appearing to be sympathetic, yet even if it's just an act, the past couple days was the right occasion for such an act.
But in the case of Harvey, Trump has thus far not decided to do so. Speaking to the press, Texas Governor Greg Abbott said that he had seen “genuine compassion” from Trump as they reviewed the damage. “The president was heartbroken about what he saw,” Abbott said. In the absence of any public display, Abbott’s testimony would have to suffice.
Lastly, I'll note that while there's no one way to express condolence, empathy and mourning, in the wake of Harvey, Trump's shown none of the many ways one might do so. Humble that ain't.