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oh, been thinking about you know who, and the anniversary of his passing a lot lately.... gosh, it is hard to believe it's been a year already! Any facebook posts from his family on it?That is just so sad, married yet separated by no reason of their own....that is so strange and seems so so so wrong! Why in the world would the USA stop a spouse of an American citizen, from coming here? Do they think she is a terrorist or something?Probably so. And they were tested for any diseases, which is important, as we are seeing today.
I have a friend right now...that married a woman from the Philippines....one year ago this past August. They married over there. She has been trying to get here, and has been since. (actually started the process prior to marriage). They have not seen one another since they got married. The process to get here can be very hard now days, but they would not even consider her coming illegally.
It's tough, but IMO is is how it should be. And yes, I feel bad for them.
I would have thought, the spouse could simply come here with their American husband on a green card, without all of the hoop dee dah? My Italian mother married my father in March, in August he was stationed back to the U.S,, my mother came with him, 5 years or less? later, she got her citizenship.
It could be that because he was in the US Air Force and stationed overseas, the process was easy peasy for them??
I suppose it is harder now. I really do not know, except right now it is HER country that is making it so slow.
Tell your friend, to contact his US Representative and US Senator and ask them for help...
granted this was 50 years ago, but my father contacted them to get visas for my mother's parents that were being stalled.... I don't know from which end/country... but they helped my grandparents get their visas.
Okay, I will. I do think they are close to now having to do what is required in this country. (taking care of the visa stuff on this end) I do hope they can be together soon.
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