Asclepias
Diamond Member
The terms white and black when referring to caucasians and negroes are loosely figurative descriptions. Except for albinos, caucasians are not white but are varying shades of pink and yellowish tan, and with very few exceptions negroes are not black but varying shades of brown and yellowish tan. And while exposure to sunlight will impart a darkening effect to most and a burning effect to some it does absolutely nothing to alter one's ethnic physical characteristics.I don't know. No question blacks value lighter skin color but then, whites want darker skin. That's why they lay out in the sun. Everybody, in america anyway, wants that copper color.
Nothing looks worse on a white girl than untanned legs.
There were a few summers when I spent all day every day on a beach and by September my skin was as dark as some negroes and darker than some, yet I was never mistaken for a negro. During those times I was much more successful with girls than in my natural state.
If we examine literature and common parlance for insight into this phenomenon we find that women are referred to as fair maidens and their preference is for men who are tall, dark, and handsome. So it seems men prefer light-skinned women and women like dark-skinned men. Perhaps this is the reason, or one reason, why we see far more White women in the company of Black men than the reverse.
I think that may indeed be a part of it. Never considered that phrasing but can definitely see the effects it would have at least on white people. I know some Black guys that want a white woman just because she is white and will not date a black woman. Some Black women will only date lighter skinned black guys or whites. Most of these types suffer from self hate I have found when they exclude anything else. I find my dark brown coloring to be a big bonus with women from all ethnicities and the ones that are not black seem to really get turned on by it.