When and where I grew up...it was suburban, there were a lot of international and diplomatic families, and a significant middle class Jewish community, and our schools reflected that mixture. We had a synagogue next to a church and I was never really aware of who was Jewish, who was not - and I wasn't aware of anti-semitism (but I wouldn't be would I, since I am not Jewish) - but what I mean to say what you were was no big deal as far as I knew.
What I think is a pity is the pretty blatent and currently accepted and DEFENDED anti-Islam rhetoric. Muslims in America, up until 9/11 did not have to defend themselves - they were and are exemplary Americans, they blended in, they are represented in our military, entertainment industry, business (in fact Palestinian Americans are a very successful community, as are Iranian Americans). But what is happening now? A systemic and deliberate demonizing and broad brushing in an attempt to define them as "the Other" in America. Islamic American institutions are tarred with terrorism, even though the linkages are very weak and loose at times in an effort to discredit them and their advocacy. We do not need this just as we do not need anti-semitism, but people it seems need someone to unite against in hate, and that is disturbing.
Your term “the other” comes with a certain amount of baggage. It’s not all date palms and camel's milk when we drill down on the various islamist advocacy groups here in the Great Satan and North America.
CAIR describes itself as “America’s largest Islamic civil liberties group,” but in 2007, the U.S. government labeled CAIR an unindicted co-conspirator in the trial of the Holy Land Foundation for financing the Hamas terrorist group.
[ed. Note that in terms of timelines, 2007 came before 2011.]
In November 2014 CAIR was designated as a terrorist organization by the United Arab Emirates along with a host of other Muslim Brotherhood entities. The United Arab Emirates is not located here in North America. Although, I could be wrong about that.
The Great Satan’s neighbor to the north has some issues with ISNA.
ISNA-Canada Loses Charity Status Over Terror Funding
Here in the Great Satan, ISNA has a history of association with Islamic Terrorist groups.
Report: ISNA Gave $100K to Terrorist Front Group
I would be remiss not to acknowledge that there are also plenty of Christian, Jewish, Zionist, and atheist infidel terror groups currently operating inside of Moslem lands where they have only been met with tolerance, equality, and all of the attendant benefits of an open society governed representatively by the rule of law.