Coloradomtnman
Rational and proud of it.
Only as needed to protect the rights of citizens. That's the key.So what is the actual constitutional need to do that, which you claim gov't has?You dont have the slightest fucking clue what you are talking about.You missed the point. You have the right to do anything not forbidden by law, and if it is forbidden, that law must be constitutional. If the government forbids you to do something, constitutionally, it must show an actual legitimate need to do so. Since marriage isn't forbidden, and you are an individual with self-determination to seek happiness and you wish to get married, you have the right to do so. To seek happiness. That is your right and it is explicit in the Declaration of Independence, and in Constitutional case law, and therefore, you have the right to marry.
The Constitution limits the authority of the government, not the rights of citizens. Anything not explicitly forbidden by constitutional law, you have the right to do. Like drink wine and wear hats and get married.
The government forbids from growing pot in my backyard. Do I have a constitutional right to grow pot in my backyard?
No, because it is forbidden by law.
The government has a legitimate constitutional need to maintain civil order.
Rights, property, persons, and to maintain a "flourishing society" I would say. I think the government may intervene if it feels that a community's behavior is such as to be detrimental to good order, whether laws are broken or not. I'm speculating on that last bit and can't think of any positive examples to back it up, but I can think of examples of the opposite.