Milo talks about who few women describe themselves as feminists, because the vast majority of women do not want to be a part of this shit.
Naaaaaah, Milo is dead wrong. As a "Second Wave" Feminist, I know that what has happened is that now ALLLLL women are feminists, of the kind of mild feminism that we promoted and that now rules. This workplace flap derives from reasonable feminism: of course men shouldn't do that stuff! Migod!!
Milo is too young to realize that what he is talking about is "Third Wave" feminism, which is pretty seriously weird --- all the horror stories you've heard of.
Milo has described himself as a Second Wave feminist, also.
But in that case, neither of you define modern Feminism. And women know that, which is why so few identify as feminist.