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No one said anything about guaranteed outcome or ease of outcome.
However when discussing national policy, you can't just discuss things in a vacuum. We have some of the worst upward mobility compared to other industrialized nations, if you're born poor in Australia, Sweden, Norway, Finland, Germany, Spain, France, and Canada you have a better shot of raising above your socioeconomic class than the US.
You can't just say "poor people shouldn't be having families".
You want the tax rate of Sweden?? It is wealth redistribution, something a free society should never stand for
Your upward mobility is not the government's responsibility nor anyone else's
I don't say they should be forbidden from having families.. I do say that they have to support them themselves, regardless if it takes working 2 or 3 or whatever # of jobs... you deciding to have kids is not on anyone else's responsibility list
Exactly. Back when hubby and I started out, we both came from financially challenged families who gave us no help, and we knew we were on our own. More than once we had five jobs between us just to make ends meet, and yes we got behind in our payments sometimes and there were many weeks with more week than the paycheck could cover. But we managed. And we were dutiful tax payers and we didn't cost any of the rest of you a single dime of what you earned.
And our children never missed a meal, were reasonably well dressed, were very well educated, were provided with enough advantages to try for pretty much what they wanted to do whether in sports or music or other pursuits--if we we couldn't afford it we encouraged them to earn it themselves--and whether they would or would not go to college was never an option for them. They would go. And they would graduate. (They did.)
But that was in the days when people expected to support their families, there were essentially no government services to help out, and if we had routinely sent our kids to school without breakfast or lunch money or neglected them in any other way, social services would have been on our doorstep inquiring, and if we were unable to take care of our kids, those kids would have been taken and placed with people whod would take care of them until such time as we got our act together and could do it.
Rewarding people, at other people's expense, for making shitty choices, for having kids they can't support, for failing to equip themselves to support themselves, is a certain prescription to have more and more people making shitty choices, for having more and more kids they can't support, and taking away all incentive for equipping themselves to take care of themselves.