WinterBorn
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- Nov 18, 2011
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Try an "adoption" contract.
And in most states, an unmarried couple cannot both adopt a child. The child must be adopted by one or the other. And if that person dies, the other member of the couple has no legal rights.
There are benefits to being married that cannot be gained by legal contracts. Also, the fact that every couple who gets a marriage licence and goes to the courthouse gets these benefits. You want gay couples to go to an expensive lawyer to be able to get most of them?
The "gay couples" want to live their lives differently? Yes, I believe there should be more expenses involved. If the adoptive parent sets the other person as guardian, they would have legal rights.
There are benefits to marriage that cannot be gained by having a false marriage. If you want to have that, you choose the right person of the opposite sex, and you too, can have all the benefits of marriage. Because you do not want a person of the opposite sex does not mean there is anything wrong with the institution of marriage. It means that you choose to go against societal norms, and want a pity party because things aren't going your way.
"I fought the law, and the law won".... the same with the world, if you fight the world, you are going to get bruises.
The idea of gay marriage is not taking anything away from marriage, but adding to it.
But I see what you are saying. We'll change the laws and get back to you. Its coming.