Seawytch
Information isnt Advocacy
Equal protection is there, but men and women marrying is not equal to men/men woman/woman marrying. Biology is a bitch.
By your definition I should be able to take maternity leave via maternity laws, or apply for government programs specifically for women/minorities, because, after all, "equal protection."
Play the devil's advocate. You may soon discover that your argument is ridiculous.
I have, and under strict scrutiny Equal protection is kept as long as men and women are allowed to marry without burdening restrictions.
Please note that the consitution also does not ban states from allowing gay or even polygamous marriage if done so via the legislature. And some STATE constitutions may be written in such a way as to allow gay/poly marriage. However equal protection simply does not cover gay marriage, as there is nothing equal between what was previously seen, hetero marriage, and gay marriage.
Odd that Federal Judges aren't coming to your same conclusions. They keep striking down these anti gay laws...based on equal protection.