Self hating jews are people who supports the flotilla attack that made Hamas look good. If you're pro Israel you would have to be disgusted about the flotilla attack.
Actually, I think you have to really hate yourself to blow yourself up in the hope you get 72 times 72 virgins....are there that many virgins? Even in Heaven? Oh well, only the idiots who blow themselves up will ever know....and they ain't speakin' to you no more.....