Sounds like she could be a success but requires the motivation. Its a shame but people can be so talented and have so much to offer but prefer not to show the world their talents.
Why bother? It's hard to motivate yourself. It's even harder when you have nothing to lose.
Depending on expenses, sometimes I can understand why people stay on welfare. If they were paid more to work, they'd get a job.
Some single mums here stay on welfare because they won't earn enough with a full time job when you factor in the massive costs of childcare. I can understand that - you want to have as much money as possible to care for your kids.
Perhaps they should not have had so many children. We can bring up the woman suddenly widowed, or the hapless housewife who married and her husband left her for a younger trophy wife, we might take care of these unfortunates who are in a distinct minority. By far and away, the women with children they cannot care for are women that have never married and knew when they spread their legs that they could not care for the resulting children. Abortion is the same answer for reducing the number of poor, as execution is for reducing the number of prisoners thereby lowering the overall crime rate.
Women who have children they cannot care for, are very much like my steip granddaughter who has children as a means of increasing her income. If we did not have so many women who look at children as a means of increasing income and extending indolency, there would be MORE than enough money to care for the women and children who have no income because of circumstances beyond their control.
In his essay The Principle of Population, Robert Malthus said that if the wealthy gave the poor 18 pence a day for subsistence the poor would thereby able to live in a measure of comfort on that amount. If the amount was raised to five shillings, the poor could greatly improve their comfort level and both the quantity and quality of food on the table. But the poor would not do that. The poor would have more children until the five shillings provided no more improvement than 18 pence did. Moreover, paying the poor essentially to be poor has a negative effect that affects the whole society.
The receipt of five shillings a day, instead of eighteen pence, would make every man fancy himself comparatively rich, and able to indulge himself in many hours or days of leisure. This would give a strong and immediate check to productive industry; and in a short time, not only the nation would be poorer, but the lower classes themselves would be much more distressed than when they received only eighteen pence a day.
Malthus, An Essay on the Principle of Population, 1st Ed., Chapters III-V | Library of Economics and Liberty V
This is what welfare has done to us.