Seawytch
Information isnt Advocacy
He didn't have to lie to join, only to his shipmates when asked "what did you do this weekend"?
He didn't make that distinction in his question. He just said "I lied". (also, he was in the Army. he doesn't have "shipmates".)
Since we don't know his exact enlistment date, we are both applying supposition. In my 20 years I never had to lie in an official capacity. I had to "lie" to my shipmates on number of occasions, but usually it was just an altering of pronouns.
But let's suppose that he enlisted prior to 1993. If that is the case, he may have had to "lie" in order to enlist...much like Audy Murphy did in order to enlist. Do you honor or find contempt in one or both? What do you think about a military policy that would REQUIRE people to lie about who they are in order to serve?
I was in the military for 11 years. I had a gay soldier in my squad, and I knew he was gay. So did my CO. Even though he was a chronic disciplinary problem, (including the one time he got into a fight at the enlisted club because he tried to play grab-ass with some guys who didn't share his lifestyle), we did not throw him out. (He eventually contracted HIV and got out on a medical.)
I also knew guys in basic, some of whom told the rest of us they weren't gay, they just wanted out, who tried to get out that way. News flash, they don't throw you out so easy after they've invested a lot of money in you. Took months to get these guys out, one guy was still waiting in the baracks while the rest of us were going off to AIT.
So, my guess is these "dozen people" you know probably got home, realized what a disgrace getting discharged was, and blamed the bad old system. How many of them have rushed back to re-enlist now that the Bamster has overturned it?
I spent 20 years in AS A GAY PERSON so I'm going to bet I knew a few more gay people than you did wouldn't you say? Did you ever read "Combat Unbecoming"? Too late for summer reading, but the long winter months are coming. Might I suggest adding it to your reading list?
Now, sorry, the military should not take polls on how it is run. I would trust the judgement of officers before a public opinion poll. A lot of them were against this, they were against DADT when Clinton proposed it. My biggest concern is that the miltiary is going to end up making a lot of concessions to keep them happy. What about the Chaplain who preaches that homosexuality is a sin? Do we put him out of the military to placate them?
Did you know that Truman polled the Armed Forces when he wanted to desegregate? Do you know what those polls showed? Should Truman have NOT desegregated because the military was overwhelmingly against it (as was public opinion as well)
The 1st Amendment isn't going to change simply because you can't kick us out of the military anymore.
I think Muslim chaplains should be able to rail against the Christian infidels during their services, don't you?
Religions are going to have to adapt to the changing attitudes of their flocks or risk losing them...without outside pressure. I'm certainly content to wait for that to happen rather than try to legislate what a military chaplain can or cannot preach against.
More to the point. If you think some guy is out there who's been unemployed for a year, and he's going to say, "Well, they're foreclosing on my house next week, but Obama let gays in the military, give that boy another term!" I think you are sadly delusional.
I realize that we aren't used to having a President that can walk and chew gum at the same time but this one can. It is just one in a list of many of his accomplishments, but still one that was supported by a majority of Americans and needed to be done long before this. Basic equality does not have to be sidelined because the economy sucks ass.