Redfish
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Well then, you can certainly try. Good luck in your endeavor.
However, I will add this. Is you are as good in your legal arguments for Polygamy as you are in your legal arguments against gay marriage.....I won't be holding my breath for Polygamy anytime soon.
I think the legal case has already been made and we are awaiting the final decision on that. Once that comes in, I expect the first polygamy cases will start shortly - but that is just a guess on my part. However, if saying a marriage can only be between a man and a woman is a violation of the 14th amendment, then saying it can only be between two people is as well.
true, and the next question is: is that where we want our society to go?
That depends upon who "we" are. I doubt you are going to find any kind of consensus. For my part, where I would like the country to go is one in which the government does not make these kinds of personal decisions for us.
so you would be OK with a society that allowed multiple people to enter into a "marriage" , allowed siblings to marry, allowed parents and children to marry?
The people decide what society considers to be right and moral, and the govenment exists to enforce those beliefs.
We are at a turning point, either we have standards of right and wrong or we have an anyhing-goes society. Personally I want our society to have standards, how about you?
Yes. I would be ok with that. So long as the people are competent adults, it is none of my business who they want to marry.
The problem with this whole standards thing is that invariably the person who wants the standards want their standards, not - for example - my standards. It's always the other guy that needs the government to tell them how to live, never the person who wants the government to do it. So you'll have to excuse me if I don't trust your standards.
OK, so here is what you are saying is Ok.
Tom, Jack, Joe and Abe marry Mary, Elaine, Cindy, Joan, and Diane. Together they have 12 kids, 8 cars, 2 boats, a large house, and 9 401K accounts. Cindy and Tom decide to divorce the rest of them. How many lawyers does it take to divide that kids and assets? how much court cost is expended? what are the tax implications?
You have no idea what you are saying is OK.