Spare_change
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Its not just lack of racial knowledge, its also lack of functional knowledge that effects everyone. The one that I believe is crucial to Black kids as a first step is racial knowledge. Let me explain. If you are told the only thing you ever were was a savage and then a slave you dont have much to live up to. You have no tradition to uphold. I cite my parents instilling in me a knowledge of my racial heritage as a very solid foundation to my success. Its not really interesting to study math any way but the knowledge your ancestors used it and it is now the basis of everything invented in technology give it a little more appeal.Never really put a percentage to it but I would say it was the largest number as it effects the other 2 factors tremendously. Knowledge is lacking specifically because its not taught in our public schools. Historically accurate information has been omitted, denied or ridiculed. There is no reason not to teach this information and it effects Blacks the most. Regardless of it being intentional or not it is racism. Inclination to quit is rooted in your amount of hope. If your hopes are killed a million times a day as a kid you wont be too inclined to have it when you get older. I would think factors involved in the lack of personal responsibility could be distributed among these two things. Yes I think things have slightly gotten better only because the legality of racism is not as enforceable as it once was.I don't know who wrote them ... but seems like a valid question to me. If you're going to create a blanket excuse - the system kept me down - then that blanket has to cover everybody, right?
Let me ask this ... I know you're successful, and you've tutored several young blacks to be successful. When you see an unsuccessful white person, or an unsuccessful Hispanic, what do you attribute that to? You've often posited that 'white privilege can be overcome (you and your students are examples of that), so why can't, in theory, every young black overcome it? Is it because the 'system keeps them down', or is it that there just aren't enough like you to show them the way?
Your confusing circumstances with an excuse. An excuse is just a reason for giving up and any excuse will do. Circumstances are real and must be considered and accounted for. The facts are that our current system in this country is racial. Its racism defined simply because it was put into place by whites to the detriment of Blacks and to a lesser extent other races. when I see an unsuccessful white persons I attribute it to something horrific in childhood or laziness. With a Hispanic it depends on their race. If they are seen as white then the prior explanation applies. With other Hispanics I attribute it to the same thing that plagues my Black community which is in large part racism combined with lack of knowledge and inclination to quit..
Ok -- i see where you are coming from.
Racism, lack of knowledge, and the inclination to quit are at the root of problems in the black community. I think i got that right ... in fact, I agree with you. Now, where we disagree ...
What percentage is racism, what percentage is lack of knowledge, and what percentage is inclination to quit? And, do you believe those percentages have changed over the past 40 years?
Added note: Should we consider 'lack of personal responsibility' to that list?
Ok, now I'm officially confused ...
1) When you spoke of 'lack of knowledge', I interpreted that to mean that the quality of education in the black community was so poor that young graduates were not equipped with the tools to succeed (I agree with that). Now, I get a sense that you're talking about race-specific knowledge - black history, etc. (You're gonna have to convince me how that keeps them from succeeding, but I'm willing to listen).
2) "If your hopes are killed a million times a day as a kid, you won't be too inclined ..." Who's killing their hopes? We're talking about young black kids who aren't exposed to whites on any consistent basis. Surely, you don't mean them. Are you talking about the black culture, and black adults being so beaten down that they kill the hopes of their own children? Isn't that what parents do? Help their children reach higher than they ever got? You can't reach the moon in one step, but you sure can make progress toward it every day. Is the problem that black adults are convincing the next generation that they CAN'T succeed, and are pointing to racism as the reason to not even try?
Just for the record ... I think the percentages are lack of will - 50%, lack of knowledge - 40% , and racism (interpreted as holding them back) as 10% of the problem. I'm not saying racism doesn't cause the other two ... rather that, overt racism blocking them is only 10% of the problem.
Their hopes are being killed by the media, the interaction with the cops, and yes sometimes with their parents caught in the cycle. No I am not talking about Black culture because thats not Black culture. If you see no way to reach the moon how do you expect someone to take steps toward getting there? There has to be a vision and a hope that you will succeed. Black children dont get to see that enough unless their parents are knowledgable enough to seek it out. Again its a cyclic thing.
I would expect someone not familiar with the issues to access the situation as such. I hold no malice but I will tell you that you are wrong.
Sure as hell wouldn't be the first time I was wrong ...
I understand everything you say ... and, in large part, I agree with you. But, I would suggest that while you primarily blame society - media, education, etc - you had the very thing that most young blacks don't have ... parents who cared, parents who gave you a foundation. Don't misunderstand - I'm not saying black parents are irresponsible. But, I am saying that they, as a group, seem to be ineffective. We all know about the lack of responsibility by fathers in the black community, we all know that the mothers accept that (or have to). I suspect you came from a very strong family background - something that is becoming less and less in all communities, white or black, but has reached epidemic levels in the black community. Twelve year old kids shooting up neighborhoods and hauling drugs isn't something whitey can fix. Parents have to take responsibility for raising kids right - whether they be white or black.
But, here's the thing ... while it's okay to blame whitey for what happened, you can't use that as an excuse not to step up. The black community has to solve its own problems ... the white community can't do it for you. We've tried it several times - and fucked it up every time.
Primarily-black schools get more money per student than primarily-white schools. I just raised an issue at the local school board. 90% of all black students tested at the 10th grade level were not proficient, compared to 48% white students. Did I see a hullabaloo in the black community? Guess how many people complained to the school board? One - me. Guess what color I am? White. Where the hell were all those parents? Why wasn't the black community up in arms about that? Do they not care enough? Then, I saw the uproar over Michael Brown - lots of black people there. They cared enough about that to protest - but not enough about their children coming out of school functionally illiterate. I don't see protests over black-on-black crime, only when there's a white person to blame.
My point is simple --- do you have a right to be upset with the white community for what they did? Absolutely. But, you need to direct your anger into the black community ... because that is where the problem is today. You need to aggressively confront that school board, that police department, that tv station, whatever the hell you think is promoting racism. But, more important than that, you need to aggressively confront that deadbeat dad, that drug dealer on the corner, and that parent who lets their kid run wild.
Wanna help those kids? Fix their parents.
PS. Sermons make me sleepy - even when I'm writing them. Take care.