BlackSand
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I didn't "argue" about it -- I requested it. To no avail.
As already noted, I can't participate if the OP refuses to say what the question is. I suspect she does this because I'm not likely to take the discussion where she wants it to go -- wherever that is. It's happened before.
No worries though. I've got my own cashews.![]()
But you have participated.
You have given your answers in regards to the different ways you would approach the subject under varied definitions.
You have gone there and taken the discussion with you ... She cannot stop you from doing what you have already done.
If you want to join the party and pick a fight with the OP ... Then at least recognize it for what it is.
Maybe that way you can adjust your approach and start the healing process.
It is kind of like the "healing" argument that so many use in regards to race relations.
I am no expert ... But with all this healing going on .. And nothing getting healed ... Its about time y'all try something else.
You cannot make white people who had nothing to do with slavery, and who aren't racist, feel any more guilty ... Or at least not with any sense of accomplishing anything positive or worthwhile.
On a side note ... Glad to hear you have some cashews and are doing well ...
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