Mac1958
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- Dec 8, 2011
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I'll try to make this as clear and parsed as I can so that you can't distort it.No it isn't. You just won't be honest.No one here is saying that "women who wear revealing clothing invite men to rape them".Myths & Truths about Rape | Rape Crisis
MYTH: Women who wear revealing clothing invite men to rape them.
Appearance and clothing have nothing to do with who gets raped. Women are raped no matter what they wear: babies in nappies, old women in tracksuits and nuns in habits also get raped.
TRUTH: Clothing does not determine who gets raped.
It's too bad we can't have an honest conversation about this.
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That is exactly what you are saying in a round about way.
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Yes . . . it is. And if not, then what is your point?
If a woman wears clothing that might be considered sexy or provocative by some guy, any guy, the chances of something happening that she doesn't want have increased by some measure, even if it's 0.1%. "Something that she doesn't want" could be some slob coming on too strong, some sick asshole thinking "she's asking for it", you name it. Or it could lead to a sexual encounter that is perceived by the man as consensual but NOT considered consensual by the woman. Which, as any honest person will admit, does happen.
It would therefore be in the woman's best interests to simply consider that fact when deciding what she's going to wear, where she is going to go, and with whom she is going to go. No, it shouldn't be that way, it's a goddamn shame, but it's better to deal with reality than to see the worst happen. It only needs to happen once.
If that isn't clear enough for you, there's nothing else I can do.
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