I do not know if people are born to be straight or gay but I have observed that many homosexuals make that aspect of their life their identity and that bothers me...it is if tht is the only part of their character they wish to portrait to others. There is so much more to an individual than their sexual orientation. I dislike it when you meet someone they immediately tell you hey I am gay! I don't see people who are straight introduce themselves and declare hey I am straight nice to know you.
Who is anyone to judge what another deems their most prized personality trait?