I do not find it insulting at all. I find it interesting that your mind will not allow for any other possibility than either hating something or being a part of it. It is a common theme among the hyper-partisan types.
It is a way of life that I cannot understand no matter how hard I try, why someone is worthy of hate just because they are not exactly like you.
As for normal, what is normal? Is it normal to have been married to the same woman for 30 years without cheating?
Is it normal to have been a runner for 47 years and never going more than 7 days without a run in all that time?
Normal = average and I find average to be rather boring. But it suits you.
But you are nearly always compelled to defend trans no matter what disgusting acts they do, even involving children. You may be closeted, but you do appear to indeed be trans.