Admiral Rockwell Tory
Diamond Member
Fundamentalists in all religions seek to control women's sexuality. Female genital mutilation in Africa is the removal of a woman's clitoris in the belief that if women can't derive pleasure from sex, they won't be unfaithful.
What the Christian fundamentalists have wrought by insisting their daughters make "chastity pledges" is damaging on a number of levels and is a fine example of "unintended consequences".
1. It teaches young women that the only thing of value that they will bring to their marriage is their "virginity". Their only value as a human being is between their legs. If they're not a virgin, they won't be able to get a good husband.
That's not something we should be teaching our daughters. That their sexuality is the only thing of value they have to offer their husbands. That their intelligence, their talents and their abilities have no value if they have been "defiled".
2. This is the unintended consequences part. Since vaginal sex is prohibited until marriage, these sweet young things are now engaging in sex acts that as a teenager I had no idea even existed. Admittedly I was pretty naive as a teenager but these girls are giving blow jobs and engaging in anal intercourse routinely in order to keep that precious hymen intact until the wedding night just like they promised.
The unintended consequences would by hysterically funny if they weren't so sad.
But according to Bill Clinton, none of that counts as sex, as you can't get pregnant, so what's the problem?