Oddball
Unobtanium Member
Well, I was speaking more generally.Thing is, it is not deserved. It is a gift freely given to those who seek it. Again by grace, not earned. Certainly a source of neurotic behavior though. I try to start everyone back to forgiven each day. Yesterday is simply the past. We are living in the moment, which is what determines whether I am okay, happy or angry with a person for the day.
However, if one doesn't believe that they deserve the gift, they won't seek it out.....Nor will they appreciate it if they happen to receive it by the luck of the draw.
If you believe you deserve the grace, you will both seek it out and appreciate it.