Israel has compromised a number of times offering Palestinians their own land. They always refused because HAMAS turned it down. Why? Because Israel conditioned it on the condition that the new Palestine state would acknowledge Israel’s right to exist.I joined the Army during the Reagan years. I mention that as an indicator of my age and experience.
When I was growing up I learned that compromise was the key to success in deals, and in politics. You have to meet somewhere in the middle and walk away with a deal that you don’t live, but you can live with. The other side doesn’t live it, but they can live with it.
What happened is that we started to highlight the voices on the extreme. The extreme right and the extreme left. We used those extremes to gun up support for our side. And soon we as a people began believing the propaganda. In that we aren’t alone. History is filled with examples of similar behavior.
It’s comforting to think our side is good and their side is bad. It’s a lot easier to do that than explain the nuances of the positions.
I have mocked a lot of people on the right, and left. I don’t overstate their importance, or their support. I try and filter everything through my core beliefs.
I tend to reject radicals on both sides. They aren’t the enemy. They are just people who are more passionate than I believe is wise. I just don’t have the energy or the time to hate that much.