....and were rejected by the RWrs in almost every state it was brought up.Sorry, I don't shut up just because you have issues.
And if you would like to remove the +/- 1,400 benefits that straight married couples enjoy from federal state and local gov'ts, there would be no lack of equal protection under the law. Try doing that.
Otherwise, get used to same sex marriages. It shouldn't be difficult. They don't change your marriage at all.
It's not just money.
It's being able to see a loved one in a hospital. It's about children and having to spend thousands of dollars on lawyers to protect children and property that straights don't have to spend. It's about inheritance and having to get a lawyer to make sure that their spouse is able to inherit from them or their kids get to stay with their spouse after one has died.
There are so many benefits that we straights take for granted but are denied to gay people. It's disgusting to see that so many people in our nation are still filled with such hate that they can't see what's happening in front of their faces.
all these could be satisfied with a civil union law such as California already had ......but that wasn't good enough......some legal manipulators wanted to screw up the law, AGAINST the wishes of the California gay community BTW......
Scalia was more than pleased with how that one turned out..........despite his public protestations. ...because it undermined democracy.
Civil Unions never were the legal equivalent to marriage- they were the modern version of 'seperate but equal'
the courts could come up with a compromise in a way by applying some of these as a mater of right......IN fact if they find on the basis of right....they should break it down and justify all these rights...(hospital visits,etc. like I believe you or someone else mentioned.)
The courts have come up with a compromise- treat same gender couples the same as opposite gender couples.
Solves the problem very simply.